Gratitude changes Attitude

The above quote is one of my favourite quotes. The greatest truths in life are often composed of the simplest words wrapped up in the most profound meanings.

  • Have you ever tried to start the day by listing 5 things/people/events you are thankful for?
  • How has that impacted your day? 
  • Have you ever tried to end your day by listing 5 things/people/events you were grateful for?

Oprah started a movement a few years ago with her Gratitude Journal. I remember watching that first episode where she spoke about creating a Gratitude Journal and I LOVED the idea. 

Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. ~ Melody Beattie

Human memory is a fickle thing. It tends to remember the bad and the negative more often than the positive. It is so much easier to list a negative thing that happens in your day and sometimes it is difficult to see any positive in a normal day. What I love about the idea of a gratitude journal is that after the first few days of listing the obvious things, like family, friends and health; it becomes more of an effort to search for something or someone you are grateful for. Yes, you could repeat the same things every day but why not change it up and make sure you find something/someone new to be grateful for. Some days 5 things can be a bit of a stretch but you must be able to find at least 1 and when you recall one, you might recall a second. 

As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words but to live by them. ~ John Fitzgerald Kennedy

Which comes first? Happiness or Gratitude?

Gratitude is more than thoughts or words, true Gratitude is a life-changing attitude. Once you get into the habit of starting your day and ending your day with a minimum of 3 things you are grateful for (the morning gratitude list must be different to the evening gratitude list) you get into the habit of being more positive and more optimistic. Now your brain becomes used to seeking out the joys, the hopes and the positives in every situation. You start to come around to seeing that there are miracles happening all around you because you are now seeking them out.

We attract abundance when we ask from a compassionate heart. ~ Jonathan Lockwood Huie

Optimism is catching. Walk down the street or get into an elevator full of people and smile at one person, I bet you get a smile in return. Now inversely, frown at a person and I bet they look away out of discomfort. So optimism is more catching than pessimism. People love being around optimistic and joyful people. It is far more pleasant than being around a grouch/whiner/whinger/moaner. 

It is not happy people who are thankful; It is thankful people who are happy.

So, if you have never tried to keep a gratitude journal, make this the week that you start. What have you got to lose? Better yet, think about what you might gain. 

Have you ever kept a Gratitude Journal or anything similar?

If you have/did, how did you find it impacted your daily life and daily interactions with others?

Do you consider yourself a “Glass half full” or a “Glass half empty” person?

New Blog | New Year | Looking Towards JOY in 2012

Welcome to my New Blog for 2012!

If you came here from one of my other blogs,

you will see that this blog has a very different focus.

My other blogs focus and will continue to focus on my life as a writer. 

Walking towards JOY in 2012...© Kim Koning Photographs

This blog is going to be a more personal journey.

As always creativity is the focus of my life…

It is my fuel and my nourishment both as an individual and as a writer & poet. 

This blog is about a search for more creativity, gratitude, and a focus on living a more inspired life 

as an artist, a writer, a creative individual and a born again Christian.

I will be using both art, crafts and camera and any other creative medium to journal my journey.

Anything shared or journalled in this journey are my own thoughts, my own emotions and my own inspirations. This is a personal blog shared publicly in the tone of inspiration.

For the last 2 years I have searched out a Word of the Year instead of making New Year’s Resolutions. One of my friends recently posted that one should not make Resolutions but Goals. For me the Word of the Year is a Focus for the whole year. It is a word or a set of words that combines both goal, focus, commitment  and promise for the New Year.

I was first inspired to find a Word of Purpose by Elizabeth Gilbert in her bestselling memoir, Eat, Pray, Love. I read the book at a time in my life when I was at the lowest level of despair and sadness. The book resonated with me in an instant. I believe that there are certain books that come into your life at just the right moment and for me then it was Eat,Pray,Love.

So this is my third year of finding a Word or Words of the Year.

  • In 2010 – My words were: BELIEVE and RENEW
  • In 2011 – My words were: POSSIBILITY and SEEK

In 2012 – My words are…

CHOOSE
DANCE
JOY

Or to put in a sentence ~ I CHOOSE to DANCE for JOY in 2012

Another thing I do to start the New Year off is to create a Vision Board. I usually incorporate my Words of the Year into the Vision Board. I do two types of Vision Boards: One a digital version that I use as my Desktop Background on my laptop and the other a physical Vision Board that I hang in my office.

This year though I have also signed up to a project called Book of Days 2012. This is an art journalling project where you don’t just journal thoughts and memories but you use arts and crafts to better journal your year of 365 days. So I have combined my Words of the Year, my Vision Board and my Book of Days into one project that I will be journalling both in this blog and in a physical art journal which I am still creating.

So here is a preview of my Vision Board for this year…which will also be the cover for my Book of Days.

My Words of the Year 2012 ~ I "CHOOSE" to "DANCE" for "JOY"